Rise up

Let us talk and think about real life here for a second. You gave away that you read this blog last night when you started nodding emphatically about my new book. So no games comprende?

Let's apply justice to real life here. You have a real life problem because you are refusing to look at reality.

K is a fool. you said it so yourself last night. He delights in pornography, smokes marijuana and drinks alcohol. He lies to you, telling you that he loves you with his words, but that he only loves himself by his actions. He steals from those who have trusted him. He cheated on you, and told you that he didn't love you because he wanted to chase some new tail. He uses and abuses your grace, that you are so patient and so kind. He is taking your strengths and turning them into weaknesses.

Fools delight in immoral behavior, and they love to bring other people down to their level. He is destroying you because that is the only way he knows how to live life. He is destroying himself daily, by acting without thought and without remorse to the consequences of his actions. He is destroying you because you are letting him.and in this I promise you he does not care. How could he truly care about someone else when there is no room for anyone else in his heart?

This is justice, that you are going to be destroyed because you are refusing to see the only thing that matters- Truth. Ignore your emotions, we have them for a reason and you are letting yours RULE you. That is not why we feel, we feel because life is beautiful and we are meant to love it and live it, we are meant to love ourselves, as god loves us. And in turn appreciate this gift of life, instead you are being corrupted by corrupt behavior.

I am angry with you, even though I love you as a sister in christ and my very dear friend. You know the truth and refuse to act on it. You inspire me daily, to be a better person, to see life like it is interesting and a pure joy. I love who you are, you have so much worth that maybe you don't see it. I treasure you and cherish our friendship, but for YOUR sake please fix the problem.

You know how I feel about defending the people I care about, and since quite clearly he is destroying your life in small fractions... I have no problem in destroying his life. It is my moral right to defend those who cannot defend themselves, and if it comes to it I will not watch you be destroyed.

I could fix this entire situation with a few volatile words and balled up fists inside of his personal bubble. The thought makes me happy, because righteous anger is a gift from god. And this should tell you something, because you already know that he would not fight for you. 1. That is not yet my place, because you haven't asked me to 2. I don't want you to back away from a personal struggle because you see an easy option.
Address the issue.

There is room for growth here.You are and always have been strong, I admire you for this. And I "forgive" you in your moment of weakness if you cannot find the willpower. I will take on your burden for you if you can't handle it. I will fix it for you, just say the word. But you will appreciate this much more later on if you handle the situation like the strong independent woman I know you to be.

Rise up